I’m busy.
All professors are busy. All professionals are busy…well, most, anyway.
Whether it’s for a scholarship or for a new job, you’re ultimately asking me for a favor, to take time out of my schedule to write a letter of reference or to answer some questions over the phone about a position you’re after.
When I feel prepared, I don’t mind doing it. When I don’t, it’s awkward. So, with the high-season approaching for the job search, here are my tips for asking me to be a reference and for helping me help you.
1) Please ask if I’m comfortable being on your reference list or comfortable writing a letter of recommendation. There are some triggers that will result in an enthusiastic “yes!” from me:
- Be a good student. Get good grades, be diligent and responsible. Come to class, do your best work, etc. etc. I rarely say no, but I will if I’m not comfortable with your performance in class. Or I’ll be honest about what I can say and let you make the decision about whether to include me. Just being in my class, doesn’t entitle you to a reference.
- Help me get to know you. There are students who never say more than a dozen words to me all term. Take the time to chat, come by office hours and talk about what you want to do after graduation. I know things (and people) and can probably offer some insight.
2) If I say, yes, please let me know that you’ve begun sending resumes. The very worst calls are the ones I get from prospective employers and I didn’t realize that I was listed as a reference. There have been times where I had a hard time answering the manager’s questions about a former student.
3) Tell me which jobs you’re applying for. I’m in PR, I know how to answer questions in a way that is targeted to the information a manager needs, and highlights the your strengths appropriately. If I don’t know what jobs you’re applying for, I can’t speak to the position’s specific requirements.
- A quick email will give me the heads up that I might be getting a call.
- Send me the link to the job post, or forward it to me in an email.
- If you know the company is looking for a particular skill set, tell me. I can feature that in the reference call.
4) Give me the tools I need to be your ambassador. Despite the fact that we’ve talked about (even at length) your career goals and ambitions, I have a lot of students. On top of students, I have several clients. And the cherry on top of all that? I have a toddler. I’m surprised I remember to wear matching shoes and where I parked my car. I will not remember every nuance of every discussion we’ve had.
- Send me your resume. A complete resume with explanations of particular jobs, internships and responsibilities is useful. It doesn’t have to be the resume you’re sending to employers or schools. It could even be a spiritual resume.
- Send me your transcripts. This might be more useful for a graduate school or a scholarship application. It certainly never hurts.
- One student created a folder with all the information I would need to respond to her request. She has now set the bar for awesome in this category.
I love seeing students succeed. I want you to find your dream job, get into the best schools and win the most prestigious awards. It reflects well on the school and on me, being associated with such talent! Help me do a good job for you!
More tips here. And here. Also check out Careers category from Alltop for lots more general tips about the job hunt.
Any others? What’s worked for you (as a student)? And what do you appreciate (as an educator or professional)?